Understanding Local Cultures
-Thainland-
“Kreng jai” - (CONSIDERATION)
Cultural Norms and Etiquette
Understanding Social Behaviors and Customs: Thailand's culture is rooted in respect, politeness, and mindfulness of others. Knowing these norms is crucial to integrating smoothly as an expat.
Respect for the Monarchy: The Thai royal family is deeply respected, and speaking ill of the monarchy is both culturally taboo and legally punishable. Always show respect in discussions or when seeing images of the King.
Buddhist Influences: The majority of Thais practice Buddhism, which impacts many social customs, including temple etiquette and daily interactions. When visiting temples, dress modestly (cover shoulders and knees) and remove your shoes before entering.
Common Practices in Communication, Greetings, and Hospitality: Politeness is key in Thai interactions, and how you communicate can reflect your respect for their culture.
The Wai Greeting: A traditional greeting is the wai, where hands are pressed together (like in prayer) and accompanied by a slight bow. The higher the hands and deeper the bow, the more respect is shown. It's customary to return a wai if one is offered to you.
Indirect Communication: Thais tend to be non-confrontational and value "saving face," so avoid being overly direct or confrontational. Politeness, smiles, and subtle gestures are important in daily conversations.
Expectations in Different Settings: Whether in homes, businesses, or public spaces, understanding context-specific etiquette helps you navigate different environments.
Homes: When visiting a Thai home, remove your shoes before entering, and bring a small gift to show appreciation. Meals are often shared, and it’s polite to wait until the host begins eating before you do.
Businesses: In business settings, formal attire is often expected, and hierarchical respect is important. Business cards should be given and received with both hands, and it’s polite to briefly look at the card before putting it away.
Public Spaces: Show respect for elders, and avoid touching anyone’s head, as it is considered the most sacred part of the body. Public displays of affection are generally frowned upon, and maintaining a calm demeanor is highly valued.
Cultural No-No’s
Avoiding Cultural Missteps: Understanding what to avoid in daily life is just as important as knowing what to do. Certain actions can be seen as disrespectful or taboo in Thai culture.
Don't Disrespect the Royal Family: Any form of criticism against the monarchy is both culturally offensive and legally punishable. Even accidentally stepping on Thai currency, which features images of the King, can be seen as disrespectful.
Feet & Head Etiquette: Avoid pointing your feet at people, religious objects, or photos of the King, as feet are considered the lowest and dirtiest part of the body. Conversely, the head is sacred—never touch someone’s head, not even playfully, as it's seen as highly disrespectful.
Behaviors Considered Rude or Taboo: Several social norms may not be obvious to foreigners but are crucial to respect in Thailand.
Public Displays of Affection: While holding hands is generally acceptable, more intimate forms of affection (kissing, hugging) in public are frowned upon and can make others uncomfortable.
Losing Your Temper: Keeping a calm and composed demeanor is valued in Thai culture. Raising your voice, showing anger, or arguing in public is seen as "losing face" and is considered very rude.
Navigating Sensitive Situations as a Foreigner: Thais are generally understanding of cultural differences, but here are some ways to avoid misunderstandings.
Dress Modestly: Especially when visiting temples or rural areas, dress conservatively (covering shoulders and knees). Swimsuits and revealing clothes are best saved for the beach or resort areas.
Use Your Right Hand: When handing items to others or eating, it’s customary to use your right hand. The left hand is considered unclean in Thai culture, so try to avoid using it to pass things or gesture.