Understanding Local Cultures
-Bali-
“Gotong royong” - (MUTUAL COOPERATION)
Cultural Norms and Etiquette
Understanding Social Behaviors and Customs: Balinese culture is deeply rooted in Hindu traditions, respect for community, and spirituality. Daily life often revolves around ceremonies, offerings, and social harmony, and respect for these customs is key as an expat.
Respect for Religion & Rituals: Religion is an integral part of life in Bali. You'll often see offerings (called "canang sari") placed on the ground, at entrances, and in temples—always step around them, never over. Observing ceremonies is welcomed, but do so quietly and respectfully.
Common Practices in Communication, Greetings, and Hospitality: Politeness and calmness are essential in Balinese culture, and greetings are often accompanied by respect for others.
Greetings: A typical Balinese greeting is a slight bow of the head with hands pressed together in front of the chest ("sampai jumpa" or "om swastiastu"). A handshake is also common, but be gentle and use both hands if possible.
Indirect Communication: Balinese people often communicate indirectly to maintain harmony and avoid conflict. A "yes" might not always mean agreement, so it's good to observe body language and tone for deeper understanding.
Expectations in Different Settings: Different settings come with specific expectations for etiquette, whether you’re visiting someone’s home, working, or spending time in public.
Homes: If invited to a Balinese home, remove your shoes before entering, and consider bringing a small gift as a token of appreciation. It's customary to sit cross-legged on the floor, and it's polite to wait to be offered food or drinks.
Businesses: Business interactions are generally formal, with an emphasis on building relationships. Punctuality is important, and business cards are exchanged respectfully, using both hands. Dress modestly and professionally, even in the warm climate.
Public Spaces: Maintain a calm and composed demeanor in public. Balinese people value peace and community harmony, so keeping your voice down, being polite, and showing respect are appreciated. It’s also considered impolite to point directly at people or objects.
Cultural No-No’s
Avoiding Cultural Missteps: Being aware of local customs will help you avoid unintentional disrespect. Here are some key actions to avoid while living in Bali:
Don’t Step on Offerings: Balinese people create daily offerings ("canang sari") placed on sidewalks, entrances, and shrines. Accidentally stepping on them is considered disrespectful, so always be mindful of where you walk.
Don’t Point with Your Finger or Feet: Pointing at people, places, or things with your index finger is considered impolite. Instead, use your whole hand or thumb. Pointing your feet at people or sacred objects, like statues and altars, is also seen as rude.
Behaviors Considered Rude or Taboo: Certain behaviors may not be immediately obvious but are important to respect in Balinese culture.
Avoid Public Displays of Affection: While hand-holding is generally fine, more intimate displays of affection (kissing, hugging) in public spaces can be seen as inappropriate. It's best to keep such displays private.
Dress Modestly in Temples and Villages: When visiting sacred sites or traditional villages, wearing appropriate attire is important. Cover your shoulders and knees, and wear a "sarong" and "sash" when entering temples. Avoid wearing beachwear away from the beach or pool areas.
Navigating Sensitive Situations as a Foreigner: Balinese people are generally friendly and understanding, but here are some tips for avoiding misunderstandings:
Stay Calm and Polite: Raising your voice, showing frustration, or being confrontational is frowned upon. If faced with a challenging situation, remain calm, smile, and try to resolve it peacefully.
Be Careful with Religious and Political Discussions: These topics can be sensitive. It’s best to approach any discussions on religion or politics with caution and respect for differing viewpoints.